Obituaries

Murray, Kelli

June 25th, 2010

Kelli A. (Agati), Murray, age 40, a long-time resident of Wilmington, died unexpectedly, June 25, 2010, at the Winchester Hospital.

Born on December 31, 1969, in Boston, MA, Kelli was the cherished daughter of Patricia A. (Silva) Agati of Wilmington and David J. Agati of Colorado. Kelli lived in Somerville for a few years before moving with her family to Wilmington at the age of 8. Kelli was educated in the Wilmington School System and was a graduate of Shawsheen Valley Technical High School Class of 1987.

At the time of her death, Kelli was working as a medical coder for MRSI.

Kelli will be fondly remembered for her sweet nature and her devotion to her family and friends. She was always helping others whether it was volunteering at her children’s school and sporting events, teaching CCD at St. Thomas Church, or lending a hand to someone in need, she was always there.

She loved her husband and children with all her heart and was a devoted wife of 15 years and a wonderful mother. Kelli enjoyed watching her children grow and making life special for them. She marveled at their accomplishments, they brought much joy to her life and made many wonderful memories together as a beautiful family.

Kelli enjoyed shopping especially with her mom, she loved running, and baking. Her specialty was her famous chocolate chip cookies.

Kelli was truly loved by all who knew her, she had an endearing personality, and touched so many lives. She will be greatly missed by all.

Kelli is survived by her beloved husband Joseph C. Murray II, she was the devoted and loving mother of Maryssa I., Jamie L., Jenna N., Madisyn P., and Joseph C. Murray III all of Wilmington, cherished granddaughter of Isabel Silva of Wilmington, dear sister of Kim M. Agati, beloved aunt and second mother to Kayla McCluskey both of Wilmington, niece of Janice Silva of Somerville, Janet Silva of Wilmington, cousin of Edward Silva of Wilmington, daughter-in-law of Joseph C. Murray, Sr. of Maine and Carmen Belanger of Tewksbury, sister-in-law of Eric & Denise Murray, Billy & Michele Murray, and Danny & Kara Murray all of Tewksbury, Krysta & Steve O’Neill and Rebekah & Mike Tkachuk all of Wilmington. Kelli is also survived by many nieces, nephews, and dear friends.

Family & friends will gather at the Nichols Funeral Home, Inc., 187 Middlesex Ave. (Rte. 62), Wilmington on Tuesday, June 29th at 9:00 a.m. followed by a Funeral Mass at St. Thomas of Villanova Church, 126 Middlesex Ave., Wilmington at 10:00 a.m. Interment Wildwood Cemetery, Wilmington. Visiting hours Monday, June 28th from 2:00 – 8:00 p.m.

Memorial donations in Kelli’s name may be made to the Kelli Murray Scholarship Fund, c/o Enterprise Bank, 1120 Main St., Tewksbury, MA 01876.

122 Entries in Guest Book for “Murray, Kelli”

  1. ernie boudreau says:

    joey,
    my heart hurts for your loss of your beautiful wife kelli,if there is anything i can possibly do please dont hesitate brother !! you and your family have all my love and are in my thoughts…ernie boudreau

  2. TOM CONNOLLY says:

    We are sorry for your loss and the neighborhood will truely miss you a giving mother and friend.

  3. Joanne Benton says:

    The entire Wilmington Public School community shares in your grief over the sudden loss of Kelli. She was a wonderful mother and supporter of our schools. You are all in our thoughts and prayers. Please know we are all here to help you in whatever way we can.

    Sincerely,
    Joanne Benton
    Superintendent of Schools

  4. Cindi Filadoro Ray says:

    Joey,
    My heart goes out to you and your family at this time. I am so sorry this has happened. No words can describe the pain and shock you must be going through. She was such a wonderful sweet girl.

  5. Michael & Brenda Ingersoll says:

    We are truley saddened to hear about this. Our hearts go out to you and your family. We are so so sorry.

  6. Lisa Hubbard Sakurai says:

    Joe, My heart goes out to you and your family. I am soo sorry.. Your family will be in my thoughts and prayers.

  7. Paul Stephens says:

    Joe, My Friend, My Heart is filled with Sorrow. You and Your Children are in my thoughts and Prayers.

  8. Elaine Maninos says:

    The staff of The Lowell Five in Wilmington would like to express our sincere sympathy to Kelli’s family and friends. Her passing will create a void in many lives. She was always smiling and always had a cheery word to say to everyone. There are some people that you come in contact with every day that make your day special. Kelli was one of those people. She will be sadly missed by everyone here.

  9. auntfrananduncledonald says:

    i want you to know that we loved you and although sometimes we were a silent aunt and uncle you were always on our minds and in hearts. Till we meet again sweetheart rest in peace.

  10. Nancy Fudge says:

    Pat & David,
    I was truly saddened to hear the news of Kelli. My heart goes out to you and your family at this difficult time. You’re in my thoughts and prayers.
    Nancy

  11. Jack & Kelly Michaud says:

    We are so sorry to hear about Kelli. We can’t imagine what all of you are going thru. Be strong and help each other thru this terrible time.

  12. Mike & Leanne Tilton says:

    Joe and Family we are so sorry for your loss and what your family is going through right now.We are praying for you all and are so appreciative of the way you,Kelli,and the kids welcomed our daughter into your lives two years ago.

  13. Belynda Bady says:

    Joe, Pat, Isabel, and the entire Agati/Silva/Murray family, it is incomprehensible that Kelli is gone. Her life however; was a testament of her sweet soul and love of others. She will always be here in our hearts and minds and will live on in the children.

  14. Tina Favero says:

    Kelli was a wonderful person and she will be sorely missed by all those who knew her. May love from family and friends support and comfort you during this time. Your family will be in my thoughts and prayers.

  15. Barry & Maureen Buckley say says:

    We can’t begin to say how sorry we are for loosing such a great person. If there is anything we can do, we will be there. again, so very sorry

  16. Madeline Capano says:

    To Kelli’s family… I am so sorry for you loss. You are in my thoughts and prayers. Kelli was such a wonderful person and she will be missed by many.

  17. Diane Graham says:

    Patricia, my heart aches at the loss of your beautiful daughter.
    I will always remember her correcting me when I would call her my favorite Kelli Beans.
    “No it’s just plain Kelli. “She would say.
    I loved her very much she will always be in my heart.

  18. Michael and Christine DeAmbrose and Children says:

    We are just neighbors from Ashwood Ave. but we wanted your whole family to know our hearts are broken for you, but you are not alone. We have been amazed by the effect that Kelli’s passing has had on this community. She must have been one special woman whose gifts will live on in you and your beautiful children. . We hope you find peace in all the joy she brought to others.

  19. Madonna Toto says:

    Dear Family of Kelli.
    Salon Essence was so saddened to hear the news of Kelli, we are heartbroken. She will be sadly missed by the entire town of Wilmington.
    She was not only our customer, she was our friend. She brought sunshine wherever she would be. Our prayers are with all of you.
    Pat, please know that you can call on us at any time and we will be there for you. You have a long hard road ahead of you, but Kelli will live in your heart forever. She will never be forgotten.
    Love ,
    Donna Toto

  20. Fran and John Shemkus says:

    Words cannot express how saddened we are to hear this news. Our thoughts are with you and all of the family. If there is anything we can do to help you just call.
    Love,
    Fran and John

  21. Kathy Dwyer-Hydorn says:

    Joe,

    I want to tell you how sorry I am for you and the kids. Kelli will always hold a special place in our hearts. I can’t imagine the neighborhood without her. Keep in your heart the great memories of her. She will live there forever.
    We love you and the kids, and we are just across the street when you need us.

  22. Beth Kingsley tewksbury, MA says:

    To Pat & Issy & Their Families I send my deepest Sympathies to all of you & Her Children & Husband. She was such a sweet Beautiful Girl Who, I kNow meant the world to all of you I truly know she will ALLWAYS be in your hearts Forever & Ever Now she is in Heaven with all the other Beautiful Angels. I am so sorry for your loss I really don’t know the right words to say My heart is heavy for all of you Even though I am just a friend to the family. My sincere thoughts are with you truly Issy My dear friend for many years

    Love Beth kingsley Tewksbury, MA

  23. Heather O'Brien Asang says:

    So sorry for your loss. I’m just an old friend from old neighborhood but when I heard of your loss Joe, I was devistated for you and your family. Just wanted your family to know your are in my thoughts and prayers.

  24. John & Ann Marie Buckley says:

    Joey and Family,
    John and I were deeply saddened when we heard of Kelli passing.
    Many thoughts and prayers are with you and your Family at this difficult and sad time.

  25. Lisa Hammond says:

    Dear Kim and Family;

    My thoughts and prayers are with you all, god has now created and Angel to watch over you all, remember her kindness and willingness to always give, i’m sure this is what she would have wanted. My heart goes out to her children and husband god peace.

    Lisa

  26. Michelle Benoit says:

    We heard of Kelli’s passing into eternity at our Ladies’ meeting on Friday in Baltimore, Maryland. Over 200 women were deeply saddened and immediately prayed together for your family. May our God grant you peace and strength during this time.

    Psalm 138:8 The Lord will perfect that which concerneth me.

  27. The Caples Family says:

    We are so sorry for your loss! Kelli was an amazing person and I feel so lucky to have been able to get to know her and call her a friend. Your family is in our thoughts and prayers. Kelli will be greatly missed.

  28. Tammy Metras says:

    Joe and Family,
    I was shocked and saddened to hear of Kelli’s passing. My heart felt prayers go out to you, your children and your families during this most difficult time.

  29. The Costa Family says:

    When thinking of Kelli, only thoughts of sweetness, kindness, warmth and beauty (that radiated from inside and out) come to mind. She will forever remain in our hearts this way.

    With all of our love,
    The Costa (Cohen/McNaughton) Family

  30. Lisa Goulet Spinale says:

    I am totaly shocked and saddened by the passing of Kelli. We lived in the same neighborhood growing up for years. She was a sweet sweet soul. I can not imagine how you are all holding up by this sudden tragic loss. Please accept my deepest condolances to all of you in this very difficult time. God Bless You All..

  31. Auntie Anne Silva says:

    Kelli was a beautiful, extremely loving person with a pure heart who was also a peacemaker…

    “Blessed are the peacemakers: for they shall be called the children of God. Blessed are the pure in heart: for they shall see God…Math 5: 8,9

    Love you Kelli..

  32. Kristin Brockett says:

    Joe, There are no words my friend, just know that my heart and prayers are with you and the family, I am here and will continue to be here when you need me. Love and Strength to All of you!

  33. The Benson Family says:

    We are very sorry for your loss. God bless

    nick and casey benson

  34. Gina Rinaldi-Furey says:

    Joe, my thoughts are with you and your family through this tragic time. I am truly sorry for your loss, always cherish the happy memories, may those bring you peace.

  35. Pat Agati says:

    My beautiful daughter, words cannot express my loss of never seeing you again and our special times together with the kids. I don’t know how I can, go on without you as my rock. It is my turn to follow your lead and help Jobee with my Grandbabies.
    Always Remember: “Hi, My name is Kelli, I made the cookies.”
    Love always until me meet again! Love Your Mama

    My heartfelt thanks to all those who have posted sweet words and have shared in loving my beautiful daughter!

  36. Dawn says:

    RIP…Sweet Kelli. You will be so missed. I hope you have a sweet journey into the Kingdom or Our Lord. You must be needed there…but will be so missed here with us.

    My prayers are with Joe, the kids and the entire family. I love you all. Dawn

  37. Mark Curdo, MD & Family says:

    Having taken care of the Murray kids for many years now, it is with heartfelt sadness that I sign this guestbook. Kelli was such a caring, devoted mother and I always looked forward to her friendly smile with each of the kid’s visits. May the beauty of love that she gave to these children endure with them and be an everlasting source of strength and peace.
    With Deepest Sympathy,
    Dr. Mark Curdo & Family

  38. Druann Jedrey says:

    I was so saddened to hear of Kelli’s passing and my heart goes out to her family and friends. Whenever I saw Kelli she was always smiling and will miss seeing her. My prayers are with her family. RIP

  39. Eric Murray says:

    Kelli- our gang will never be the same with you. We miss you more than words can say and dont understand why you left us. Rest well my friend and sister because we will finish what you started and raise these kids to be as wonderful as you were. I cant believe im talking about you in past tense but i will see you again someday- i love you always.

  40. Lianna Natola says:

    Maryssa,

    I am so sorry to hear about your Mom. She was always very nice and I know that you will miss her terribly.

    Lianna Natola

  41. Robin & David Jackson says:

    We are incredibly saddened by the sudden loss of Kelli. Kelli was full of so much love and happiness and we feel very blessed for having known such a wonderful person. You are all in our hearts and prayers.

  42. Nancy McMahon says:

    I first met Kelli about 15 years ago when she worked at Dr Rotolo’s office. And although I have never had the pleasure of meeting her family (except her Mom at Market Basket shopping with Kelli) I cannot begin to express how sorry I am for your devastating loss. Kelli was always a ray of sunshine whenever I had the pleasure of running into her around Wilmington. Not many people possess the special qualities that Kellil had..she was truly a top-notch human being who will be sorely missed by many. She touched so many lives in a positive way. I pray that you feel the love and prayers coming your way. There are many heavy hearts thinking of you with deepest sympathies….God bless you all!

  43. The Bolis Family says:

    Joe and Family,

    We are so saddened by the loss of your amazing Kelli. No words can describe the pain and anguish we feel for you all. She was such a beautiful, loving, caring, sweet person. I feel so blessed to be a friend of Kelli’s. May all your wonderful memories of Kelli help you get through this difficult time. I know I certainly will remember all the good times I shared with Kelli and our children.

    You are in our thoughts and prayers.

    Rick, Kerry, Kourtney & Kyle

  44. Eryn Lukic says:

    I am deeply saddened by the loss of Kelli. I worked closely with Kelli during her time on Team Tammy (MRSI). She was a phenomenal member of our team and she will forever be missed. I am blessed to have been able to meet her, in person, this past November and am glad that I had the opportunity to work with her. She was truly a wonderful, and vibrant, individual and I am deeply saddened by her passing.

    With Sympathy,

    Eryn Lukic
    MRSI

  45. Kim Cormier says:

    Dear Murray Family, I am so sorry for your loss and I’m sorry I never had the oppertunity to meet Kelli. You have my deepest sympathies. (MRSI-coder)

  46. Sherrie Ritondale and Family says:

    Words cannot express how shocked and saddened we are to hear of Kelli’s sudden passing. Please know that your entire family is in our thoughts and prayers right now. I will always remember Kelli as very sweet, friendly and helpful. May the precious memories you each have of her, give you strength to hold each other up now and in the many days ahead. Love and prayers to all of you. RIP SWEET KELLI

  47. John Boudreau says:

    My sincere condolences to you and the kids and the families saddened by the lose of your wife. anything myself or ernie can do, just ask and you will recieve, Big John

  48. Virginia Scurio Ferriman says:

    We are all sadden by the news of Kelli. May God give you strength in this time of sorrow. Ginny and family

  49. Chirichiello Blackburn says:

    To The Murray & Agati Family, We are deeply sorry for the loss of your beautiful, wonderful, Kelli. Please know you are in our thoughts & our prayers..
    Sweet Cousin Joey, I am so sorry for your heart ache. .. I hope the many beautiful memories that You, Kelli & your gorgeous children have made together, will find a way to bring you all some comfort… I love you my dear cousin, I love you always… I am so sorry… Stacey

  50. Melanie Johnson says:

    I was in training with Kelli one year ago, I was able to meet up with her again in November, being unfamiliar with this area, she helped me find my way back home. My heart goes out to her family and friends as I know she will be missed by all. maj

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