Pasquale J. Carideo

November 17th, 2019

Pasquale J. Carideo, “Pat”, age 75, a long-time resident of Wilmington, passed away at home surrounded by his loving family on Sunday, November 17th 2019.

Pat was born on August 24, 1944 in Everett, MA and was the cherished son of the late Pasquale J. and Pasqualina Carideo. Pat was raised in Everett and graduated from Everett High School, where he met his wife, Ann (Stabile) Carideo. Pat and Ann were married on October 5th, 1968 and lived in Everett for a few short years, before moving to Wilmington in January of 1976, where they raised their three children, Michelle, Scott and David.

Pat had a distinguished sales career across two industries, often working six to seven days a week, to provide for his family, something which gave him an innate sense of pride. Pat spent several years working in downtown Boston at the prestigious Martini Carl clothing company, outfitting many local and national celebrities. Pat had a passion for making his clients look their best, as well as his own meticulous appearance and polished sense of style. Pat later worked at Hains Jewelry in East Boston, where he managed the sales staff for several locations before retiring.

Outside of work, Pat had many talents and hobbies. His wife Ann taught Pat how to ballroom dance, and soon after, they became the “dancing couple”, known for being the first couple on the dance floor at any function. They also loved to find new places to go dancing on the weekends where they created many more wonderful memories and friendships.

In his youth, Pat was an accomplished trumpet player and competed in the Drum and Bugle core, something he would continue to enjoy as a spectator in later years. Pat was also a singer/actor and performed in dinner theater shows. At home, Pat valued his beautifully landscaped yard, and would spend countless hours on his pool yard, lawn and garden working to make them ‘showcase’ worthy. After a long week, Pat enjoyed cooking and later relaxing with family in his recliner and watching his favorite tv shows.

Socially, Pat was a member of the Wilmington and Everett Chapters of the Lions Club, Knights of Columbus and the Sons of Italy where he volunteered in a myriad of events while creating life-long friendships along the way.

Pat was blessed with three grandchildren and delighted to become a “Papa” to Dominic, Marina and Valentina. He looked forward to their visits, where he could babysit and spend quality time with them, telling jokes and reading their favorite stories.

Pat was the beloved husband of Ann F. (Stabile) Carideo, devoted father of Michelle Carideo Feeney & her husband Derek, Scott Carideo all of Wilmington and David Carideo of Pasadena, CA; loving “Papa” of Dominic Feeney, Marina Feeney and Valentina Carideo, cherished son of the late Pasquale J. and Pasqualina Carideo, dear brother of Connie Rongone of Florida, Mary Nuzzo of Everett and John Carideo of Florida. Pat is also survived by many loving nieces and nephews.

Family and friends will gather for a Funeral at the Nichols Funeral Home, 187 Middlesex Ave, (Rte. 62) Wilmington on Friday, November 22nd at 9:00 a.m. immediately followed by a Mass of Christian Burial in St. Thomas of Villanova Church, 126 Middlesex Ave., Wilmington at 10:00 a.m. Interment with Military Honors will follow in Wildwood Cemetery, Wilmington. Visiting hours will be held at the Funeral Home on Thursday, November 21st from 4:00 – 8:00 p.m.

Memorial donations in Pat’s name may be made to the American Cancer Society, 30 Speen St., Framingham, MA 01701 or to the American Lung Association, 55 W. Wacker Drive, Suite 1150, Chicago, IL 60601.


7 Entries in Guest Book for “Pasquale J. Carideo”

  1. Barbara and Bill Feeney says:

    We feel very blessed to have been apart of Pats extended family and sharing so many fond memories. A truly wonderful man with a big heart who cherished his family. Sending our heartfelt thoughts and prayers. We will miss you Pat. May God bless all of the Carideo family

  2. Lorraine Butler says:

    I don’t know you I’m so sorry to hear about your husband passing he is now Resting in peace may god be with you and your family you are all in my prays Always remember the good times you had with her

  3. Jack & Pat Krueger says:

    Anne, we are so very sorry for the loss of your husband Pat. He will always be remembered for his beautiful smile and his love of family. He is now in the palm of God’s hand and resting in peace. Our prayers for you and your family for strength at this sad time

  4. Marie mcDuff says:

    Anne and family I am so sorry for your loss of Pat. Joe and I enjoyed the time we all spent together. Pat was great with Joe every time he needed a new suit. He new exactly what size and what went together down to picking the shirt and tie out. He will be missed. May Pat Rest In Peace

  5. Roberta & Kevin Kelly says:

    We had the pleasure of meeting Pat & Ann at Michelle & Dereks wedding. They always had an inviting smile and great personalities. Although I didn’t know them well, Barbara & Billy always spoke so highly of them. They always enjoyed Pats company and being friends with the both of them. You will be missed by all your family & friends

  6. Susan Izzi says:

    So sorry for your loss

  7. John P Carideo Jr says:

    I am so sorry to here Uncle Pat has passed away. Auntie Ann Michelle,Sott an d David please except my sincere condolences. May he rest in peace.

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