Stephen L. Day

December 19th, 2021

Stephen L. Day, “Steve”, age 73, formerly of Saugus, MA & a long-time resident of Wilmington, went to be with His Lord and Savior Jesus Christ on December 16, 2021.
Steve was the beloved husband of Sandra L. (Wheaton) Day. Sandra was loved, cherished and adored by Stephen for 53 blessed years of marriage.

Steve worked at GE Aircraft Engines in Lynn, MA for 35 years as a mechanical engineer. He pursued his bachelor’s degree from the University of Lowell in Bachelor’s of Science and Engineering Technology graduating Summa Cum Laude leading to his position as Senior Engineer of Advanced Methods and Equipment.

Stephen’s favorite pastime was devoting himself to his Savior, Jesus. He faithfully studied the Bible most every day using church history & learning Greek to bolster his study of the Word. Steve was well-known for the numerous hours spent writing letters & praying for his immediate & extended family, friends and the persecuted church touching the lives of many, whether they were ill, seeking advice or comfort or just sharing the Word. Steve’s love for God radiated through his life, right up to the end when he prayed with various nurses in the hospital. His last day was spent FaceTiming and on the phone with numerous family members gently reminding them to stay on the straight and narrow with Jesus as their guide & take a hard look at their life’s path so he can meet up with them in Heaven one day.

Steve was the devoted father of Jennifer Gaffney & her husband Peter of Salem, MA, Jessica Nichols & her husband Guy of Lowell, Rachel Simonelli & her husband Brian of Wilmington, and Stephen Day, II & his wife Amy of Billerica, proud grandfather of Michaela Gaffney Guzman, Arianna Gaffney, Shayne Gaffney, Matthew Nichols, Felicia Nichols, Anna Nichols, Kailey Nichols, Mirlande Nichols, Collin Hoffman, Kirsten Hoffman, Aislinn Simonelli, Audrey Day & Elijah Day, and Great Grandfather to Finn Gaffney, Grace Gaffney and soon-to-be Emilia Guzman, cherished son of the late Stanley W. and Anna A.(Swanson) Day, dear brother of Stanley W. Day, Jr & his late wife Jette of North Reading and Carol J. Boisvert & her husband Dennis of Wilmington. Steve is also survived by many loving nieces and nephews.

Family & Friends will gather for a Graveside Service in Wildwood Cemetery, 233 Middlesex Ave., Wilmington, MA on Tuesday, December 21st at 2:00 p.m. Services were provided by Nichols Funeral Home, Wilmington, MA. There will be a Celebration of Life at a future date tbd.

Memorial donations in Stephen’s name may be made to Far Reaching Ministries, Voice of the Martyrs, Open Doors Ministries, Samaritan’s Purse or a charity of your choice.


18 Entries in Guest Book for “Stephen L. Day”

  1. John D. Pilla says:

    Sandy, though Steve is at Peace we know the ache of losing a beloved. I have many great memories I will cherish. May our Lord certainly be with you.

  2. Ken milton says:

    Sandy , Lord be with you during this difficult time , Steve will be so missed . Dotty and I are Praying for you and your family, One day we will all be together With the Lord , And what a glorious day that will be

  3. Brenda Holder says:

    Though I didn’t have the blessing and privilege of meeting Mr. Day, I did have a very special relationship with his namesake, Steve Day 11, when he and precious Amy attended our Newlywed Life Group my husband and I taught while they were in Florida. So many times Steve mentioned how his dad was his mentor and that he went to him for prayer and counsel. Oh what depth of love between father and son! What a beautiful legacy to carry on, living a life of glorifying God to the end. Latin: Post Tenebras Lux” After Darkness Light.

  4. Ezer & Alona Espares says:

    Sandy, I’m so sorry for your loss. Steve will greatly be missed. Thinking about him not around anymore breaks my heart. He’s one of the the nicest, sweet, and loving person we know at the church family. Ezer and I and the rest of my family would like to extend our sincere and heartfelt condolences to you and the rest of your family. My prayer for you is that God’s peace and love comforts you through the pain your feeling right now.

  5. Wayne Fernald says:

    Absent from the body – present with the LORD; I am missing my dear brother in Christ, but I have many assurances that we in Christ will be where he is. I cherish Steve’s bible studies when I first came to Calvary Chapel – Steve was an awesome man of God. It’s difficult to lose his love here in our presence, but remember his love along with Christ’s love is eternally with us…may God Bless the Day family with many precious memories as we look forward to celebrating the life of Stephen L. Day.

  6. Thomas Day says:

    It is a time of mixed emotions: loss of a great friend and brother (it was an honor to share the same surname), and jubilation in the knowledge that Steve is home with our glorious and triumphant Lord. I am praying for Sandy and family to celebrate a life well lived and to take comfort in our Lord during this difficult time. I feel the loss now but know we will see Steve again soon. Well done, good and faithful servant!

  7. Theresa Gilman says:

    Sandy, I can only imagine how it would be to lose your beloved of 53 years. We don’t grieve as the world grieves,but we do indeed grieve. You and Steve were some of the first people we knew at Calvary Chapel. I have wonderful memories from that home group at Bob and Paula’s house. Steve was always so kind and gentle. He is missed already. May the Father send angels to speak words of comfort to you, and the Holy Spirit to buoy your own spirit in this time of searing pain. It was not meant to be so, but let us look forward to the day death itself will die, in the consuming glory of the risen and victorious King Jesus, our blessed savior! Amen.

  8. Missy Ings says:

    I had known Mr Day for what seems like my entire childhood. Sunday school teacher then through my friendships with his children, Mrs Day always lovely and patient. Jessica and Guy being my youth leaders for a few years and helping with and attending the beautiful wedding. Hanging out in youth and more with Rachel and Stephen. My memories will last a lifetime of all the special times that I learned the Bible from you dad he was truly passionate about the Bible, and I pray that you hold your memories close to your heart and let your dads legacy live on through your memories. Much love to you all Missy Ings

  9. Robert and Paula Halas says:

    Steve was one of the best friends we are happy to say we had. Sandy, stay strong and lean on your family and friends during this hard time. We love you!
    Steve you will be missed more than you know. We still have your letters and will cherish them. Love Bobby and Paula

  10. Jack & Beverly Roach says:

    We are new attendees at Calvary Chapel and Steve always made us feel at home. Looking forward to seeing Steve in heaven.

  11. Jack & Beverly Roach says:

    We are new members at Calvary Chapel. Steve always made us feel at home. Looking forward to seeing Steve in heaven.

  12. Alex and Kimberly Knight says:

    RIP to Steve who was a true saint! Every time I saw him at church, we would embrace and sing the Cole Porter song “Night and Day, we are the ones!” He made me smile and he brightened all of our lives. Thanks for his life and I’m looking forward to seeing him again in Heaven. God bless you and keep you!

  13. David adn Barbara Nichols says:

    We are truly sorry for your lose. May God be with you and your family. We love you all.

  14. Derek ilg says:

    My dear friend Steve RIP. Great man of God who loved our Savior, Gods Word, his family, and a loving man to all who knew him. Pleasure to have known him and his beautiful family. Will continue to hold you all dearly in my heart and prayers.
    Derek & family

  15. Steve and Kristen Skinner says:

    So sorry to hear of the loss of Steve! Our love and prayers to you and your family Sandy.
    Steve and Kristen Skinner

  16. Hildegunn says:

    Blessing on Steve’s memory and warm wishes and comfort to the family!

  17. Glen Barlow says:

    Condolences to the whole Day family.

  18. Mirlande Nichols says:

    He was my grand father! I remember him always having great and knowledgeable conversation with me!! Super nice person!! RIP to a legend you will be forever miss!!! Thanks for allowing your Daughter to adopt me, I feel bless since!! Thank you! My condolences ???? to the rest of the family!! The good news is that He is with the almighty God our savior!! He is in a better and safe place! All pains are gone, no more suffering!!

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